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    5 Bad Driving Habits Parents Accidentally Pass Down to Their Teens

    Entcho Hristov
    Entcho Hristov
    August 15, 2026 7 min read

    Teaching your teenager to drive is a rite of passage, but it can also be a stressful experience. As an experienced driver, you've likely developed shortcuts and habits over the years that make driving feel like second nature. However, many of these "shortcuts" are actually bad habits that can cause your teen to instantly fail their New Jersey MVC road test. At Golden Wheel Driving School, our instructors spend a significant amount of time "un-teaching" bad habits that students pick up from well-meaning parents. In this guide, we highlight the five most common driving mistakes parents accidentally pass down and how you can ensure your teen is learning the right way.

    1. The "Rolling Stop" (The Ultimate Road Test Killer)

    This is by far the most common bad habit experienced drivers have. When approaching a stop sign, many adults slow down to a crawl, check for traffic, and then proceed without ever bringing the vehicle to a complete, absolute halt. For an experienced driver, this feels efficient. For a teen taking their NJ road test, it is an instant, automatic failure.

    How to Fix It:

    Teach your teen to feel the "kickback." When a car comes to a complete stop, the weight shifts slightly backward. Have them count "one-Mississippi, two-Mississippi" after feeling that shift before proceeding. Lead by example and make sure you are coming to a complete stop every time they are in the car with you.

    2. One-Handed Steering (The "Cool" Driver Pose)

    Many adults drive with one hand resting at the 12 o'clock position on the steering wheel, or with one hand draped over the center console. While this might feel comfortable on a long highway commute, it severely limits a driver's ability to make sudden evasive maneuvers. The MVC requires drivers to maintain two hands on the wheel at all times.

    How to Fix It:

    Enforce the "9 and 3" or "8 and 4" hand positions. (The old "10 and 2" is no longer recommended due to airbag deployment safety). During practice sessions, gently remind them to keep both hands on the wheel unless they are actively adjusting a control.

    3. Relying Solely on the Backup Camera

    Modern backup cameras are fantastic safety tools, and most parents today use them constantly when reversing out of driveways or parallel parking. However, if your teen stares at the dashboard screen during their road test, the examiner will mark them down for failing to observe. Backup cameras have blind spots and cannot replace the spatial awareness gained by physically turning your head.

    How to Fix It:

    Teach the "glance, don't stare" rule. When reversing, your teen should place their right arm over the passenger seat, turn their body, and look out the back window. They can glance quickly at the camera to check for low obstacles, but their primary focus must be out the windows.

    4. "Palming" the Steering Wheel

    When making a tight turn or parallel parking, many experienced drivers press the palm of their hand against the wheel and spin it rapidly. This is called "palming" or "dry steering" (if the car is stopped). Examiners despise this technique because it demonstrates a lack of vehicle control and can cause the driver's hand to slip.

    How to Fix It:

    Insist on the "hand-over-hand" steering method for sharp turns. It might feel slow and robotic to you, but it is the safest, most controlled way to turn a vehicle and is exactly what the MVC examiner wants to see.

    5. Speeding Up for Yellow Lights

    We've all done it: the light turns yellow, and instead of braking, we press the accelerator to make it through the intersection before it turns red. When a teen sees you do this, they internalize that yellow means "hurry up" rather than "prepare to stop." If a teen does this during a road test, the examiner will likely hit their dual brake, resulting in an instant failure.

    How to Fix It:

    Explain the concept of the "point of no return." If they are close to the intersection when the light turns yellow, they should proceed safely. If they have time to stop safely, they must stop. Model this behavior yourself—even if it means waiting an extra minute at the light.

    Why Professional Instruction is Crucial

    Parents play a vital role in providing the 50 hours of supervised practice required by the state. However, professional teen driving lessons are essential for building a foundation of correct, test-ready habits. At Golden Wheel Driving School, our licensed instructors are trained to spot and correct these bad habits early in the learning process.

    If you notice your teen struggling with these issues, or if practice sessions are becoming stressful, consider booking a few professional lessons. We can ensure they are fully prepared for the Lodi MVC or Wayne MVC road tests without the friction that sometimes occurs between parents and teens.

    Ready to Break the Bad Habits?

    Ensure your teen learns the right way from the start. Book a professional driving lesson with Golden Wheel Driving School today.

    Entcho Hristov

    Entcho Hristov

    Owner & Lead Instructor, Golden Wheel Driving School

    With over 40 years of professional driving instruction experience, Entcho has helped thousands of students across Bergen and Passaic Counties become safe, confident, and fully licensed drivers. He specializes in defensive driving, road test preparation, and nervous driver training.

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